The Power of a Growth Mindset: A Neuroscience-Backed Key to Unlocking Your Potential

“Whether you think you can or think you can’t, you’re right.” – Henry Ford

Growing up, many of us didn’t learn an essential tool that would have helped us recover from mistakes, move forward after failure, and embrace our ups and downs as milestones on the road to our dreams and goals. We didn’t know that at the heart of success, resilience, and personal transformation lies a key mental shift: adopting a growth mindset. But the good news? We can all learn this now!

Coined by psychologist Carol Dweck, a growth mindset is the belief that our abilities, intelligence, and talents can be developed through effort, learning, and persistence. But this isn’t just a nice idea—it’s backed by neuroscience, which, as many of you know, is something I always celebrate. Our brains hold the key to our well-being, creativity, and ability to thrive. And the best part? We have the power to shape them.

What Science Tells Us About a Growth Mindset is that our brains are neuroplastic, which means they can literally rewire and reshape themselves based on our experiences and thoughts. When we shift into a growth mindset, we strengthen the neural pathways that support resilience, problem-solving, and confidence.

People with a growth mindset show increased activity in the prefrontal cortex—the part of the brain that helps with decision-making, goal-setting, and emotional regulation. They also get dopamine boosts when facing challenges, which reinforces motivation and the desire to keep learning. Pretty cool, hey?!

On the other hand, a fixed mindset—the belief that our abilities are set in stone—activates the amygdala, our brain’s fear center and threat detecor. This can make challenges feel threatening instead of exciting and can even lead to avoidance behaviors, self-doubt, and anxiety.

So, how do we train our brains to embrace growth instead of fear? Keep reading…

4 Steps to Expand Your Growth Mindset:

1. Reframe Challenges as Opportunities

Every time we hit a roadblock, we have two choices: see it as a sign to stop or as a chance to grow. The next time something feels hard, try this simple shift:

➡ Instead of saying, “I can’t do this,” try, “I can’t do this yet.”

That one small word—yet—changes everything. It tells your brain that growth is possible, keeping you engaged and ready to push forward. Research even shows that this type of reframing activates the learning centers of the brain, making it easier to develop new skills.

2. Train Your Brain to Notice Growth

Our brains are wired to focus on what went wrong—it’s a survival instinct. But we can retrain them to look for progress instead of failure. Try this quick nightly reflection:

✔ What’s one thing I did today that stretched me?

✔ Where did I step outside my comfort zone?

✔ What’s one thing I learned from a challenge?

Each time you do this, you reinforce new neural connections that make resilience and adaptability second nature. Once you start doing this, you will feel the difference and the difference feels good!

3. Regulate Stress to Support Brain Growth

If we’re overwhelmed by stress, our brains literally shut down the learning process. High cortisol levels make it harder to think clearly, solve problems, and embrace new challenges. That’s why managing stress is a non-negotiable part of building a growth mindset.

Try:

☀ Deep breathing (inhale for 4 seconds, exhale for 6)

☀ A 5-minute movement break to reset your nervous system

☀ Journaling about what’s within your control instead of what isn’t

A calm brain is a flexible brain, and flexibility is key to growth.

4. Take Action, Even When It’s Uncomfortable

Growth isn’t something we just think about—it’s something we practice. The best way to build a growth mindset is to take small, intentional steps outside your comfort zone.

This week, can you challenge yourself:

➡ Speak up in a meeting, even if you feel nervous

➡ Try something new that you’ve been avoiding

➡ Set a tiny goal that stretches you just a little

Each step forward, no matter how small, rewires your brain for resilience and confidence.

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I hope that you can now see that growth mindset isn’t just a feel-good concept—it’s a scientifically proven way to rewire our brains for success, well-being, and fulfillment. When we learn to embrace challenges, manage stress, and take small, courageous steps forward, we don’t just change our mindset—we change our lives.

So, where will you stretch yourself today? Maybe the first step is being kinder to yourself when you make a mistake or have a failure!

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Havening Practice For Anxiety and Stress Reduction

Havening is a practice that was designed as a self-soothing tool that brings one back into a sense of wellbeing and safety. When we feel soothed, we return to our window of tolerance, which means we activate the parasympathetic nervous system of the ANS and can rest in a state of ease, relaxation, digestion and confidence.

This is a great method to use when we are feeling stressed, hyper-vigilant, anxious, overwhelmed or shutdown (numb).

Self-soothing is a powerful tool, as it is literally at your fingertips to use anytime and anywhere. Havening can help to repattern our nervous system, to create new neural pathways that feel secure, safe, soothing and empowering.

Below are three basic havening techniques that you can safely use on your own.

1)    Arm Havening: Cross your hands over your chest, as if you are giving yourself a hug. Slide your hands down your arms in a soothing motion and then slide them back up. Do this for 5 – 30 seconds. You can begin to sink it with your breathing. Exhaling as you slide the hands down and inhaling as you slide the hands up. Pause now and feel the difference.

2)    Face Havening: Place the palms of your hands on your face and let your hands, very gently and slowly, slide down the front of the face. Repeat that for 5 – 30 seconds.

3)    Hand Havening: Bring the hands together, palm to palm, in front of your chest. Slowly slide the palms up and down against each other, in a soothing pace. Repeat for 5 – 30 seconds.     

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Great work! Take a moment to notice how you feel right now. If you are still in need of more self-soothing, do the practice again. You can bring in a positive phrase this time that may help you to feel even more empowered. For example, repeat to yourself “I am safe.” “I am well.” “Everything is going to be okay.” “I got this.” “It’s okay to relax now.”

Use whatever phrase feels most supportive to you. 

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Tonglen Practice for Tough Times

Tonglen is an ancient Buddhist practice that was developed to support easing the suffering of not only ourselves, but our community and our planet. Translated it means “giving and taking.” In this practice we turn what might be viewed as things to fear or push away, into healing medicine. It’s a great tool for tough times and for being with our own and others hardship too.

In the lineage of Shambhala Buddhism, of which I am a part of, Pema Chodron taught this practice frequently. She taught us that this is how we may turn “Poison into medicine.”

Instead of strengthening our habitual patterns of aversion and anxiety, Tonglen helps us shift these old methods into an empowering and uplifting experience instead.

How to Practice Tonglen

Tonglen can be practiced anywhere, but to get to know this medicine, begin in a place that feels comfortable to you. You can take a seated position or lie down and close your eyes while doing it.

1)   Connect to Sunyata --- In Buddhism this means an expansive openness and space. You can visualize a wide-open blue sky or a vista of a large, still lake or sea. Connect to the concept of all is one and interconnectedness.

2)   Focus on Personal --- Begin this practice by focusing on your personal suffering or pain. What is currently bothering you?

3)   Begin to Visualize, inhale and take in --- See/visualize that which you would normally push away; the challenge you are working with right now. See its darkness, its thickness, and its claustrophobic nature. What color is it? What is the cloying smell? Breathe all of this in. With each inhalation take in the suffering of this into every pore of your body. Do this for 5 breaths.

4)   Begin to Visualize, exhale and give --- See now that which would offer your challenge peace, light and positivity. What color would its healing be? What does its medicine smell like? Exhale this medicine out. Turn poison into healing. Exhale safety, comfort and love. Do this for 5 breaths.

Begin to sink this practice with both inhalation and exhalation. Taking in what’s hard and releasing what’s soft and comforting.

5)   Expand to the Collective --- Now expand this practice to not just include your pain, but a close relations hurt. Breathe in their discomfort. Breathe out peace. Feel the suffering of those in your immediate vicinity (family/friends) first and then take it a step further and feel the hurt of those in your city, who may be going through suffering too. After you inhale the suffering, always exhale the medicine.

6)   Expand on this after 5 breaths, from working with the suffering of your close community and city, to include your country. Then make the practice even bigger to include the whole planet. Inhale the planets pain and exhale the planets healing.

Beautiful work!

Tonglen is a great way to build compassion and connect to the expansive wisdom that not all is solid, even things we would normally run from and see as undesirable. It is a useful practice to bring into your meditation time, your work adversities and your relationship navigation too. Use it when you, or someone you know, needs to build courage, reassurance and strength.

So it is that we increase the courage of all beings, including ourselves; may all beings be free from suffering always.

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How to Create a Sankalpa with Powerful Results

Before we begin something powerful, it’s helpful to set an intention for alignment with “what” we truly desire out of it and how we desire to feel while doing it. The yogic version of this is a Sankalpa, a Sanskrit word. San means self and kalpa translates to a vow. Together this word symbolizes the setting of a heartfelt intention that wilfully aligns the body, mind and spirit with a vow.

Dr. Wayne Dyer writes beautifully about this in his book, “The Power of Intention” (if you felt like a read, this is a good one and helpful to build inner motivation!). He says something I don’t hear many people suggest when working with intention, but which I believe is entirely the truth:

“Imagine that intention is not something you do, but rather a force that exists in the universe as an invisible field of energy.”

As we open more to our goals for the next little while, set aside time and space to create your intention of alignment clearly, as an invisible field of energy that will support you in all the work you do. Begin to see intention as the rudder to guide you to the destination you wish to arrive at.

Let’s check-in for a moment: where do you desire to be and feel in the near future? Really get a sense for what your heart-felt intention in all of the growth, exploration and transformation of the next little while shall be? What would you like to feel like at the end of next month? What is it you would like to know more deeply?  What would you like to be offering in the world? Who wold you like to be?

Now we are going to take that further…

Setting a Sankalpa Directions:

1)   Sit with yourself for a few moments. Notice your breath & close your eyes. Feel the ground beneath you and your connection to earth.

2)   Become aware of the feeling in your pelvis, your belly & your heart.

3)   Allow your Sankalpa/intention to come to you. Give it space to become clear. Take your time. This is the overarching intention and the driving alignment. Let your heart speak here too. For example, your Sankalpa may be, “I wish to know clarity about my direction forward and then go for it,” “I wish to feel joy, hope and liberation,” “It’s my intention to increase my confidence and inner power so that I feel like I can do anything, “or “I’d like to know that I am inspired, aligned and ready, each day.”

4)   Now, visualize your Sankalpa in your pelvis and belly. Plant it there.

5)   Once your lower Chakras are full with this Sankalpa, raise your intentional vow, with warmth, up into your heart where it will bloom!

6)   Say your intention quietly to yourself, but speak it out loud.

7)   Bring your hands to your heart and say thank you to yourself; honour this step.

8)   Close this practice by opening your eyes and feeling awake, ready and present… Bring this intentional vow into your day, each day! Breathe with it when you remember. Repeat it to yourself regularly. Let it in, by repeating it each morning as you awaken and before you fall asleep!

Good work — open up to receiving powerful results from this practice!

As a greater practice, you can come back to this type of alignment (sankalpa) work, as often as you need. Setting a Sankalpa is a great way to start fresh after conflict, stress or a hard experience, or simply to align with before you take on a task, practice, conversation or work. I regularly set a Sankalpa before sitting with clients or engaging with community and loved ones.

Let aligned intention support you with ease towards your dreams & goals.

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Emotional Freedom Technique Outline and 9 Point Practice

The Emotional Freedom Technique is a highly effective, non-invasive energetic and therapeutic practice to move stuck energy and beliefs that may be keeping us feeling unwell in either our mind, body or spirit.

In my years of practicing and teaching this method to clients, I have never witnessed adverse effects and often observed powerful shifts. I used this technique particularly to relive myself from chronic pain – It worked!

EFT is believed to create a balance in our energetic and nervous system, similar to how acupressure and acupuncture work by tapping on meridian points on the body; EFT also includes Cognitive Behavioural phrases that make EFT, in my opinion, even more powerful.

Below is the traditional EFT tapping sequence outlined, as well as my own cognitive behavioural phrases that I have found are the most effective to repeat while tapping. If you investigate this technique, you will get to know that many people use slightly different phrases and it is safe too to make up your own! Important to note that this technique works best when you actually say the statements out loud!

The traditional EFT tapping sequence is the methodic tapping on the ends of nine powerful energy centers/meridian points in the body. When we tap on these points, energy moves. Remember, it is not necessary to tap hard! Just tap firmly enough to notice without leaving a soar spot or bruising.

9 Point Sequence & connecting Meridian

• karate chop (KC): small intestine meridian

• top of head (TH): governing vessel

• eyebrow (EB): bladder meridian

• side of the eye (SE): gallbladder meridian

• under the eye (UE): stomach meridian

• under the nose (UN): governing vessel

• chin (Ch): central vessel

• beginning of the collarbone (CB): kidney meridian

• under the arm (UA): spleen meridian

*this 9 point sequence was recommended and outlined by healthline.com 

5 Setup Phrases to match the EFT Tapping Sequence:

Tap each statement once fully through the EFT sequence…

1) Even though I feel this deep… (you fill in the blank with whatever you are working with. Perhaps fear, anxiety, heartbreak or blame), I love and accept myself completely.

2) This (name whatever you are working with). I love and accept myself.

3) Even though I feel this (use the name again of what you are working with), I’d like to open up space for something greater in my life.

4) I allow myself to be and experience freedom. I love and accept myself completely (or you can replace “freedom for whatever feels like the right medicine for the original suffering; love, power, energy, courage etc.).

5) I am free (or, I am happy, energized, powerful etc).

Pause after you do the 5 rounds in total (one round of the 9-point tapping with each phrase). Let your hands rest on your lap and imagine breathing in warm golden sunshine and exhale out any remaining tension.

Beautiful work! Reach out if you have any questions about this process or your own experience with it. I love including EFT in practices to support my clients in their own emotional freedom and regulation.

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The Safe Container of my Body; a Somatic Self Retrieval Practice

The Safe Container of My Body

A Somatic Containment Exercise for Restoring Body Wisdom 

When we work with somatic healing and restoration practices, we are more focussed on tuning into the sensation of the body, rather than focusing on our emotions. This is because as we connect to our body’s wisdom and experience, we are then able to regulate, release trauma with ease and safety, as well as avoid becoming retriggered.

This practice is a very gently, non-invasive exercise that supports us in regaining our awareness of our skin, muscle and bone boundary (and creating a safe container for our feelings to move through). It originates from some of the research done by Dr. Peter Levine, the foundational creator of somatic healing studies. As you practice with this, you may notice that you begin to understand again that your body is a solid and secure boundary from the world that feels restorative and protective to rest inside of. 

Often we do not realize that we are not truly “in” our bodies. We are dissociated (having vacated our bodies), or our body boundaries have been ruptured, due to stress, habit, trauma and underlying fears. Somatic practices are effective ways to reclaim the experience that is rightfully ours, of living fully in the here and now, in these beautiful bodies that are our safe home.

I recommend trying this practice everyday for a week. Then, bringing it in when you feel the need to feel deeply grounded or reclaim an experience of safety.  It is great to do this exercise before you practice deeper healing work. It brings us into the healing vortex of our system, where our parasympathetic nervous system can support us in regulating with ease. When ending something that may be triggering, try this practice out and see how quickly you deescalate. It can be quite effective!

Let’s Begin.

1.     Find a safe place to practice this exercise, where you can relax and feel grounded (I often do this practice in my bedroom with the door closed).

2.     Sit comfortably and begin to notice what is supporting your seat. Notice the feeling of your legs and bottom being held by what’s underneath you (perhaps a chair or a cushion) as well as notice where your hands are resting.

3.     Take your dominant hand and place it on your other hand. Notice how your skin feels. Notice the temperature, the texture and begin to even feel the bones in your hand.

4.     Give your hand a few gentle squeezes to get a further sense of this body part. Now give it a gentle tap.

5.     Rest your hand on your hand now and say the words to yourself slowly, “This is my hand. My hand. This hand belongs to me and is part of the safe container that is my body.”

6.     Continue to do this practice for your whole upper body (you can do it for your entire body, lower too, if you like). Move from your hand, to your wrist, to your forearm, to your bicep and so on, all the way to your shoulder and chest.

7.     When you need to, switch hands so that you can also do this to the non-dominant side of your body, starting at chest, to the shoulder and heading down the arms to your other hand.  

8.     Depending on how much of your body you include in this practice, it can take 5 minutes to 30 minutes. Just do the amount that feels comfortable for you and allows you to stay in your window of tolerance, without being overwhelmed.

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Beautiful work. I hope you now feel the ease and groundedness of the amazing container of self that is you.

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A Pose to Calm the Mind, Restore & Renew with Ayurveda Wisdom

A Pose to Calm the Mind, Restore & Renew

with Ayurveda Wisdom

As we expand and grow, and as the seasons and environment around us change, our bodies, our minds, and our emotions are affected by these adaptations.

Change can put us out of sorts—even wonderful changes, like the welcoming of our bigger dreams and desires. We can become so excited about what we are creating, working hard for or manifesting into being—that we become carried away.

Suddenly we feel anxious, unbalanced and way too stressed…

Due to this, we can also become agitated, overextended and burned out—so we must take care to return to balance. For those of us who are doers, and working on creating big waves and impact on this planet, it is essential that we up our game of self-care too.

Being swept up in moving forward is wonderful, but at times it may wreak havoc on our bodies and emotions. In mindfulness, spirituality and yoga, the focus is always on balance. So here’s a simple pose to return to serenity when you are feeling a little strung out! This is also a great pose to do for insomnia (often this is caused by over activation of the nervous system) too.

In traditional Ayurveda (the “science of life”). the focus is on ancient skills of healing that work from a holistic approach, adjusting our habits to balance our lifestyles. It is believed that different types of activity (foods and seasons) are represented by different Doshas (temperaments); so are each of our bodies. Doshas are a primary energy or characteristic that is present and must be balanced in order to create harmony. The three doshas are Vata (air element, which is represented by cold, dry, and light), Kapha (water element, which is represented by heaviness, slowness, and lubrication), and Pitta (fire element, which is represented by heat, activity, moistness, and burning).

When we are burning out, we are Pitta. We have too much fire and it is causing us harm.

Here is a yoga pose that is perfect for creating balance of our Pitta energy as we rev things up!

Legs-up-the-wall, Viparita Karani 

(Viparita = Reversed and inverted. Karani = Doing and action)

This pose is spoken of throughout the yogic world as the pose that could heal most anything. It is a go-to when we need calming, centering, and restoration. It is also said to help with anxiety, insomnia, high blood pressure, and arthritis.

Step 1) Lay out a mat or blanket next to a wall (or like me, do this in bed). Depending on your height, place a rolled up blanket closer or farther away from the wall (this is to support your sacrum). If we are taller, it will be farther away—shorter, it will be closer.

Step 2) Next, lie on your right side with a rolled blanket behind you and the wall next to your buttocks and feet. As you exhale, roll to the left swinging legs up the wall and sacrum onto rolled up blanket in one motion. Adjust blanket and buttocks so that they are a comfortable distance from the wall so that legs can extend upward enjoyably. Depending on flexibility this may mean your buttocks are right next to the wall or up to five to nine inches away. Follow what feels right for your unique body.

Step 3) Connect to your breath. Notice the exhalation and the inhalation. Try to slow your breathing down a bit. Keep legs relaxed, but firm enough to hold them in place. Enjoy your heals against the wall. Relax the belly and let the sacrum sink into the rolled up blanket beneath it. Feel the contact of the sacrum with the rolled up blanket. Enjoy!

Stay in this pose between 5-15 minutes. When finished, press feet into wall, remove blanket under sacrum. Lower bottom down to the floor as you exhale and bend knees and roll back to the right side. Take a few breaths and rise when ready.

The light in me sees the light in you! Great work. How do you feel now?

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